All Men Are Not Same!

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He fights to be a survivor,
So that he could be the best Ivor.
He is your life journey’s revivor,
And the best advisor.

Ignoring his desires, he gives you all his crowns,
He works as your healer, when your life adowns.
He never complains or frowns,
But he is the one with us in our ups and downs.

You burden him with your confusions and conclusions,
Still he never tries to break your delusions,
And never shows you his emotions,
Instead he is the one to find solutions!

With all the drama and strife you do,
Your words and abuses hurts him too,
Pain, frustration and suffocation is something they ado,
Still they try not to show you too.

Never asks anything for himself,
He takes the blame of all your anger on self,
When needed he is your elf,
Nothing is important to him other than yourself.

The special things he compile,
Each day to make you smile,
There is no need to be hostile,
Make him smile, even if it takes you a while.

Between all the hustles,
Beyond thinking is a man’s struggles.
Though responsibility doubles,
He tries not to scuffle even after facing infinite hurdles.

In your life as a blessing he came,
He is not someone to always frame or blame,

Love and respect for him to acclaim,
All men are not the same!

– Ava Tripathy.

Men are a beautiful creation of god, but they are not perfect, so it’s normal that they have several errors. They deserve nothing but the best. It’s now time to thank men for all their love and support in our life. Happy International Men’s Day!

Thank you for reading 😊.

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Let me introduce myself, I'm a human searching for reality without losing morality. My name is Ava, more precisely Ava Tripathy, the face behind the blog Avem. Humorist Indian by Nature and Sarcasm in Vein. Unpredictable and absolutely a philosophical one.

59 thoughts on “All Men Are Not Same!

  1. Smiles With A Divorce Rate of 1 Percent in India
    That Leaves A lot of Fathers in the Household
    Versus The United States And a Fifty-
    Percent Divorce Rate With
    Some Ethnicities with
    Fatherless Homes
    As High as

    It’s Hard for a Young

    Man To Grow Up Without

    A Mentor And Role Model That

    Looks Like Him.. And It’s True of

    Course Where Homelife Doesn’t

    Work Out Amongst Two Even

    Harder too.. Smiles

    My Father Was in Law-Enforcement

    For 46 Years Leaving at 3… For ME A Role
    Model and Mentor Only Silent Yet Fearless
    With Rarely A Sign of Anxiety at Least Expressed
    on the Outside… For on His Last Day on Earth As He
    Was Falling He Calmly Told my Cousin he Didn’t think
    He was gonna make it and he didn’t.. Smiles my FRiEnD

    my Father Never Let us Get Close Enough to Know Him..

    i always thought He Looked So Distinguished Like He

    Should Be an Important Politician or Even Have

    His Face Sculpted Perhaps on a Mountain

    With Smiles for You See it was

    The Fearless Gift He

    Had that i wanted

    So Much in Life it took me

    A Long Time Indeed to Become my

    Own Father if We Live Long Enough We

    May all have To Become Our Own Father

    And Mother and Most Importantly Friend

    too Fearless and Free Enough to Smile and

    Cry too.. for Where i am From Boys were

    Not Allowed to Smile or Cry And

    Even Arts Were Frowned

    Upon and Named


    For only

    Girls.. Smiles

    My Friend it’s probably Harder

    Where i Live Than Ever Before for

    Boys to Become Men.. So Much Distance

    From Heart Still So Much Distance From

    Even Social Roles now and Surely So Much Distance

    From Fearless too.. and a saddest Part of all is some

    Young Men and Men are never able to even get close to a Woman

    in their



    It’s True Every

    Man that Becomes

    A Man these Days at

    Least Where i am From

    Surely Deserves an “International Men’s Day!”

    i will only Imagine What a Wonderful Father and Mother

    You have.. Smiles My Mother Was there to Give Us Love..

    And True

    Without That

    Love it’s not


    i would have
    Survived for You See
    i was born on the Autism
    Spectrum Not able to Speak

    Until 4 Where i Live it was clear

    The World Was gonna Be A Challenging

    Place for me to even survive at all

    A Smile Goes a



    my FRiEnD

    Planted By Love

    Later Finding A Father Within

    And surely keeping a Mother of Love

    Breathing As Long as i Breathe too This

    FLoWeR i still Bloom Hehe THorns And All

    i Feel Very Fortunate to Be A Man Now

    That i have been able to Develop

    A Whole Soul the Love

    With the

    Fearless too..

    The Logic hasn’t been Hard..

    Just took a Long While to put it into

    Words For You See Even into my 40’s

    I had Trouble Finding More than A Few

    Words to Say.. but it’s True as i was

    Also considered too weak to

    Deserve to even live

    And too odd too

    As Assessed

    By Peers

    It is often

    Our Weaknesses

    That end up Our Greatest

    Strengths in Mind Body As

    Soul Whole As We Overcome

    The Challenges And Go Farther

    Than We may have Ever imagined

    if We Were Just Normal… There is Almost

    Always A Silver Lining.. Yes Magic and Even

    Miracles That are Real if We Just Don’t Give

    Up And Take the Next Step on the Next Mountain

    Higher Always Balancing of course With ‘that Toe’ on the Ground



    Our Home

    In Balance

    So Calm And

    Rested to Generate

    All Our Winds Still to come..:)

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      1. SMiLes Yes Reading
        It Now While Eating
        As you are like
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      2. Life is Forever
        Now When
        We Are Full
        Of Joy
        And Word
        Holy Sacred
        Dance And Song
        Of Life FRiEnDS
        With Gravity
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  2. Beautiful expression Ava…
    No two persons are same..
    All are beautiful creations of God..but some find the purpose for which they came and some miss the bus..
    Keep writing from your heart..
    Stay blessed πŸ™πŸ˜‡

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  3. Been glad reading this post of your Ava, 😁😁
    The words shows the maturity level of yours..
    All men aren’t same,
    All men not meant to shame
    Some of them are for fame
    That’s all I could say for now..
    Have a great day..πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

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  4. This is so beautiful Ava. In the world we live in, it’s so easy to generalise men as being uncaring, cheaters or sexual offenders but it’s great you’re pointing this out. Yes, there’s problems here and there but “all men are not the same.”

    An acute point. I love it!!!

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