7 Ways To Instantly Look Attractive๐ŸŒž

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A popular saying “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, makes the term ‘Attraction’ both a mysterious and funny thing at the same time. Anybody or anything that’s attractive is visually pleasing or draws you in. Being attractive does not predominantly means by physically appearance, but the most important point is how much your personality is attractive. Without a good personality beauty can never make you attractive for a long time because remember being attractive has to do with attracting others, one way or another. We meet many people in our life, there are many too over the internet and many of those people are in every regard physically perfect. That does not mean that every individual on this planet will be able to connect with each and every person.

There are many simple factors which are important when it comes to attractiveness, for example the way you carry yourself, thinking process or simply a smile it can be anything small or big because these small qualities are the primary driving force behind being attractive.

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Here are 7 ways which according to me can make anyone look more attractive instantly:-

Convince Yourself That You Are Attractive

It’s often rightly said if you can’t love yourself then no one else can. In the same way to be an attractive person the first and important step is the need of you to perceive yourself as being attractive. Be confident and show your inner true self to people. But always remember there is a difference between confidence and cockiness. Avoid cockiness because it will backfire and push people away.

A Better Listener And Slow Speaker

Listening to someone with full attention is a thing which only few people do because many people out there are extremely opinionated and they want to speak first without hearing what others have to say. A simple thing ‘Be Quick to Listen and Slow to Speak’ can make one’s personality 100 times more attractive. But to do this correctly one needs to remember to be really open minded rather than judgemental.

Simple Power- Smile

A simple Smile has the power of giving positive vibes. Smiling provides and immediate and favorable connection with people around which in turn makes those who smile consistently more attractive. But beware fake smiles can be be recognized easily which can make some kind of bad impact.

The Magic Of Laughter

Research says that laughter reduces the level of stress hormones and increases the level of ‘Feel Good Hormones’ called endorphins. This ways laughter actually adds years to your life as well as makes you attractive around people. Laughter can indeed make a person radiate their inner beauty.

Bitching And Complaining An Absolute NO-NO

The first step on how to make yourself more and more unattractive is to start bitching and complaining every chance you get. As it is well known, people always get attracted to positivity rather than negativity. Complaining and bitching will give a negative tint to personality. If you are continually happy and grateful, you will automatically make yourself much more attractive to those around you.

The Importance Of Eye-Contact

Making Eye-contact while speaking to someone can be magic and work wonders. People express confidence and interest when they habitually make eye contact with other people which will surely result in favorable and productive connections with other people. This is the best way to show others that you acknowledge them and you are interested and care about what they say.

Be Yourself

It’s very rightly said if you can’t love yourself then no one else can. We are in such a society where people have mastered hiding their own self there own identity and are now mimicking others. This is absolutely unwanted and entirely unrealistic because no one is perfect. People who love themselves and are comfortable as they are will always be more attractive.

Thanks for Reading๐Ÿ˜Š.

Feel free to share your views and suggest more ways to look attractive in the comments below๐Ÿ˜Š.

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Published by Ava Tripathy

Let me introduce myself, I'm a human searching for reality without losing morality. My name is Ava, more precisely Ava Tripathy, the face behind the blog Avem. Humorist Indian by Nature and Sarcasm in Vein. Unpredictable and absolutely a philosophical one.

32 thoughts on “7 Ways To Instantly Look Attractive๐ŸŒž

  1. ๐Ÿ™‚ I love the concept of convincing myself that I am attractive with the intention of looking attractive (That should be an easy thing for me to do).

    I strongly agree that laughter is an attractive quality.

    Thank you for publishing such a wonderful post!

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  2. I really feel Good as The post is very positive, informative and Interesting. I do have some flaws which I need to address which I realized, And yes few things are so true like u mentioned about smile and d self belief of being an attractive regardless of the physical attributes

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  3. Amazing points! Very well said by you dear..๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

    Be as you are, listen to others, smile, calmness in mind, good speech…makes you attractive..๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿค˜๐Ÿ˜Š

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  4. SMiles Working With the Public For Decades in a Service through Managerial
    Through Administrative Capacity Really Directly Interacting With Both the Public
    And Work Force Likely Measuring Over 100,000 Interactions With Folks over the

    Course of all those Years

    The People i still

    Remember the People

    Who i Most Was Attracted

    to Be Around Are Still the

    People Who Are


    to Others,

    Pets, and Even

    The Rest of Nature

    And Particularly People

    Who Put People First

    For When i Find



    That i Just

    Really Will Never Go Away

    of course until they Go Away

    For It is So Fulfilling to See

    Other Folks take

    Such a

    Loving Interest

    In Almost Everyone they Meet…
    i Believe this often Comes From Overcoming
    Hardships in Life And More Easily Being Able
    to Put Ourselves in the Shoes of Others many of those
    Who may have not had the Same Advantages in Life For
    It is Easy to Love People We Find Attractive and by the way
    All Your Suggestions are Excellent all of them indeed a Test

    Comes When the
    Person Doesn’t

    Seem Very

    When They
    Are Having an Off Day

    And Perhaps Even an Off Year Then
    Shall We Have the Same Compassion
    And Love For Them When Their Lights
    of Attractiveness Go Out Sadly Even the

    Kind People who may not be Perceived
    As Attractive in Physical Ways may be tossed
    Away in Just a Shallow World of Skin Deep Smiles
    Ava Kindness Deserves Kindness How Precious Kindness
    That Just Never Gives Up No Matter Now How Lives Change…

    And Of Course This is why i Never Miss A Week on Your Blog
    And Miss You if You Miss A Week.. You are one of the Most
    Consistent Kind Persons i’ve really ever met in life in my


    This is the

    Way to never

    Even Die

    For When We

    Are Down And Someone

    Sweet and Kind Comes our Way

    It Will Change our Life to be kind to
    Others Long After the Kind One Before Goes…

    There are surely Angels in this World When i was down
    Really down when i couldn’t stand any Light or Noise with
    All the pain i had in 66 Months i went to A Gym and there was
    This Young Woman Who Was Always Singing Beautifully There

    i was nothing Like i am now so ill then barely even Human at all…

    Yet You See it didn’t Matter to her if i was the “Hunch Back of Notre Dame”

    She Would Always Turn the Lights Down In the Gym Just for me as she could feel my pain…

    That was 12 or 13 years ago… i still remember the Kindness of Her Face and i’m sure she is still




    There is still Good Left in the World…
    Indeed these are the People We May Remember Most
    The People Who Are There For Us When We are the Living
    Dead… Once i’m a Friend to someone i have No Ability to Turn

    my Back on them

    It Doesn’t

    Hurt to Give….

    Kindness A Greatest Gift of All…
    True the Happiest Part of all
    Going to Hell on Earth was
    Learning to be a FRiEnD
    Like My Mother Who



    Up on me…
    Love Like A
    Mother Nurture
    A Plant Never Let it Die..

    Will A Mother Love All Her
    Children Yes A Mother of Love Or
    Any Human of Love Will Love ‘Them All’..:)

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    1. What an amazing human being you are sir!
      I’m glad that I got in touch with you,
      Every week I gain knowledge from your wisdom and every week it really amazes me that as a human we can never stop growing and learning.
      Thank you so much for always being there with me in my journey ๐Ÿ˜Šโค

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      1. SMiles Dear Ava Ever Since
        My Recovery Back To
        Loving Life In July 2013

        My Aim to Make
        Every Move Now

        A More Sacred Holy
        Dance as Gift in Life

        And With The Same
        Gratitude every Word
        A Holy And Sacred

        Song Now

        All in Grace of
        Balance Loving

        Foundation Where
        Will And Strength

        Rises With
        No Fear Where

        Each Move And Word
        Becomes More Human
        Potential Exploring New Now

        And Every Human Plus
        All Of Nature Connection

        Is A Living Tree That
        Always Grows More

        Leaves to Feed The
        Tree And Spread



        To Fertilize
        New Love For Life
        Thanks Dear For All
        Your Kind And Encouraging

        Words As Your Wisdom


        This Tree Grow๐ŸŒฒ

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      2. SMiles Dear Being Ava
        Retired With Zero
        Financial Demands

        And No Major Sources
        Of Stress Lends A Golden
        Age To Focus On Within

        Balancing Yes Regulating
        All Emotions Integrating
        All Senses Hehe In The

        Working World
        i Got So Wound
        Up i Basically


        Myself Honestly
        i Never Even Started

        Living until 53 And
        Haha When i Was 25
        i Already Felt Like i

        Was Getting Old

        And Now
        At 60 i Feel

        Forever Young
        Key Master Feelings
        And Senses Become

        A Real


        Of Youth
        Within Now
        Yet My Gosh
        i Understand

        How Difficult it
        Is When Our World
        Moves Too Fast to
        Even Possibly Find Balance

        Yet Yes We Will Do Our Best๐Ÿ™โ˜บ๏ธ


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