A popular saying “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, makes the term ‘Attraction’ both a mysterious and funny thing at the same time. Anybody or anything that’s attractive is visually pleasing or draws you in. Being attractive does not predominantly means by physically appearance, but the most important point is how much your personality is attractive. Without a good personality beauty can never make you attractive for a long time because remember being attractive has to do with attracting others, one way or another. We meet many people in our life, there are many too over the internet and many of those people are in every regard physically perfect. That does not mean that every individual on this planet will be able to connect with each and every person.
There are many simple factors which are important when it comes to attractiveness, for example the way you carry yourself, thinking process or simply a smile it can be anything small or big because these small qualities are the primary driving force behind being attractive.
Here are 7 ways which according to me can make anyone look more attractive instantly:-
Convince Yourself That You Are Attractive
It’s often rightly said if you can’t love yourself then no one else can. In the same way to be an attractive person the first and important step is the need of you to perceive yourself as being attractive. Be confident and show your inner true self to people. But always remember there is a difference between confidence and cockiness. Avoid cockiness because it will backfire and push people away.
A Better Listener And Slow Speaker
Listening to someone with full attention is a thing which only few people do because many people out there are extremely opinionated and they want to speak first without hearing what others have to say. A simple thing ‘Be Quick to Listen and Slow to Speak’ can make one’s personality 100 times more attractive. But to do this correctly one needs to remember to be really open minded rather than judgemental.
Simple Power- Smile
A simple Smile has the power of giving positive vibes. Smiling provides and immediate and favorable connection with people around which in turn makes those who smile consistently more attractive. But beware fake smiles can be be recognized easily which can make some kind of bad impact.
The Magic Of Laughter
Research says that laughter reduces the level of stress hormones and increases the level of ‘Feel Good Hormones’ called endorphins. This ways laughter actually adds years to your life as well as makes you attractive around people. Laughter can indeed make a person radiate their inner beauty.
Bitching And Complaining An Absolute NO-NO
The first step on how to make yourself more and more unattractive is to start bitching and complaining every chance you get. As it is well known, people always get attracted to positivity rather than negativity. Complaining and bitching will give a negative tint to personality. If you are continually happy and grateful, you will automatically make yourself much more attractive to those around you.
The Importance Of Eye-Contact
Making Eye-contact while speaking to someone can be magic and work wonders. People express confidence and interest when they habitually make eye contact with other people which will surely result in favorable and productive connections with other people. This is the best way to show others that you acknowledge them and you are interested and care about what they say.
Be Yourself
It’s very rightly said if you can’t love yourself then no one else can. We are in such a society where people have mastered hiding their own self there own identity and are now mimicking others. This is absolutely unwanted and entirely unrealistic because no one is perfect. People who love themselves and are comfortable as they are will always be more attractive.
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Avem 
🙂 I love the concept of convincing myself that I am attractive with the intention of looking attractive (That should be an easy thing for me to do).
I strongly agree that laughter is an attractive quality.
Thank you for publishing such a wonderful post!
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Glad that you like it!
Pleasure is all mine 😊
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You got me at no bitching and complaining. 😆 totally agree.
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Thank you so much 😊
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I really feel Good as The post is very positive, informative and Interesting. I do have some flaws which I need to address which I realized, And yes few things are so true like u mentioned about smile and d self belief of being an attractive regardless of the physical attributes
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Absolutely!
Glad that you like it,
Thank you so much 😊
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Amazing points! Very well said by you dear..👌👌
Be as you are, listen to others, smile, calmness in mind, good speech…makes you attractive..👍👍🤘😊
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Thank you so much 😊
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The way you carry yourself, your mental and emotional response , thought process make you more attractive..it is not about only physical attributes…
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Absolutely true!😊
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SMiles Working With the Public For Decades in a Service through Managerial
Through Administrative Capacity Really Directly Interacting With Both the Public
And Work Force Likely Measuring Over 100,000 Interactions With Folks over the
Course of all those Years
The People i still
Remember the People
Who i Most Was Attracted
to Be Around Are Still the
People Who Are
Kindest
to Others,
Pets, and Even
The Rest of Nature
And Particularly People
Who Put People First
For When i Find
Someone
Like
That i Just
Really Will Never Go Away
of course until they Go Away
For It is So Fulfilling to See
Other Folks take
Such a
Loving Interest
In Almost Everyone they Meet…
i Believe this often Comes From Overcoming
Hardships in Life And More Easily Being Able
to Put Ourselves in the Shoes of Others many of those
Who may have not had the Same Advantages in Life For
It is Easy to Love People We Find Attractive and by the way
All Your Suggestions are Excellent all of them indeed a Test
Comes When the
Person Doesn’t
Seem Very
Attractive
When They
Are Having an Off Day
And Perhaps Even an Off Year Then
Shall We Have the Same Compassion
And Love For Them When Their Lights
of Attractiveness Go Out Sadly Even the
Kind People who may not be Perceived
As Attractive in Physical Ways may be tossed
Away in Just a Shallow World of Skin Deep Smiles
Ava Kindness Deserves Kindness How Precious Kindness
That Just Never Gives Up No Matter Now How Lives Change…
And Of Course This is why i Never Miss A Week on Your Blog
And Miss You if You Miss A Week.. You are one of the Most
Consistent Kind Persons i’ve really ever met in life in my
Opinion
This is the
Way to never
Even Die
For When We
Are Down And Someone
Sweet and Kind Comes our Way
It Will Change our Life to be kind to
Others Long After the Kind One Before Goes…
There are surely Angels in this World When i was down
Really down when i couldn’t stand any Light or Noise with
All the pain i had in 66 Months i went to A Gym and there was
This Young Woman Who Was Always Singing Beautifully There
i was nothing Like i am now so ill then barely even Human at all…
Yet You See it didn’t Matter to her if i was the “Hunch Back of Notre Dame”
She Would Always Turn the Lights Down In the Gym Just for me as she could feel my pain…
That was 12 or 13 years ago… i still remember the Kindness of Her Face and i’m sure she is still
Making
People
Understand
There is still Good Left in the World…
Indeed these are the People We May Remember Most
The People Who Are There For Us When We are the Living
Dead… Once i’m a Friend to someone i have No Ability to Turn
my Back on them
It Doesn’t
Hurt to Give….
Kindness A Greatest Gift of All…
True the Happiest Part of all
Going to Hell on Earth was
Learning to be a FRiEnD
Like My Mother Who
Never
Gave
Up on me…
Love Like A
Mother Nurture
A Plant Never Let it Die..
Will A Mother Love All Her
Children Yes A Mother of Love Or
Any Human of Love Will Love ‘Them All’..:)
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What an amazing human being you are sir!
I’m glad that I got in touch with you,
Every week I gain knowledge from your wisdom and every week it really amazes me that as a human we can never stop growing and learning.
Thank you so much for always being there with me in my journey 😊❤
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SMiles Dear Ava Ever Since
My Recovery Back To
Loving Life In July 2013
My Aim to Make
Every Move Now
A More Sacred Holy
Dance as Gift in Life
And With The Same
Gratitude every Word
A Holy And Sacred
Song Now
All in Grace of
Balance Loving
Foundation Where
Will And Strength
Rises With
No Fear Where
Each Move And Word
Becomes More Human
Potential Exploring New Now
And Every Human Plus
All Of Nature Connection
Is A Living Tree That
Always Grows More
Leaves to Feed The
Tree And Spread
Falling
Leaves
To Fertilize
New Love For Life
Thanks Dear For All
Your Kind And Encouraging
Words As Your Wisdom
Helps😊🤗
This Tree Grow🌲
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U harbour such powerful kind yet simple emotions in you,
I hope I learn this😄❤
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SMiles Dear Being Ava
Retired With Zero
Financial Demands
And No Major Sources
Of Stress Lends A Golden
Age To Focus On Within
Balancing Yes Regulating
All Emotions Integrating
All Senses Hehe In The
Working World
i Got So Wound
Up i Basically
Strangled
Myself Honestly
i Never Even Started
Living until 53 And
Haha When i Was 25
i Already Felt Like i
Was Getting Old
And Now
At 60 i Feel
Forever Young
Key Master Feelings
And Senses Become
A Real
Fountain
Of Youth
Within Now
Yet My Gosh
i Understand
How Difficult it
Is When Our World
Moves Too Fast to
Even Possibly Find Balance
Yet Yes We Will Do Our Best🙏☺️
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Attractive thoughts, support you in this positive way of thinking 👋🙂
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Thank you so much 😊
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Great post 👍
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Thank you so much 😊
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These were some amazing points! Thanks a ton for sharing them Di ✨
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Pleasure is all mine sweetheart ❤
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Well explained and so true!
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Thank you so much 😊
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Your welcome 🙏
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Wonderful points👏👏👏
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Thank you so much 😊
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I love this. To look attractive be attractive. Excellent!!!
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Thank you so much 😊
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Loved this read!❤❤
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Thank you so much 😊
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Reblogged this on .
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Wonderful thoughts..Will definitely try to implement this my life!!
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