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Her Trajectory🎀

When your family was waiting and guessing,
You came to the world as a blessing.

While most of the people around you wanted you to be ‘HE’,
Your family was happy as you were made a proud ‘SHE’.

Being a little princess,everything around you was poured with pink
Sadly, these silly things were only what your parents could think!

From playing with dolls to listening stories of moon and stars,
Hardly, did anybody knew that you also liked playing with cars.

The society asked you to be soft, sensitive and fragile
But you were born to be bold, strong and agile!

You were forced to follow the so-called standard beauty trend,
As if not looking fair and flawless will make the world end!

Laughing at all this social fuss,
You realized beauty exists in all of us.

Everybody asked you to be graceful and homely to fit in the frame,
But the women leaders out there taught you how to ace the game.

From difficulty to ignore those annoying creepy chase,
To fighting the irritating male gaze,

Every day of a girl is an unwanted war,
But still you are out in the world shinning like a bright star!

Insecurities and doubts were hard to get over,
But you were strong enough not to let these disturb you ever.

You endure everything with silent sob and weep,
Still you stand tough as you made promises to keep.

You knew your self-esteem to you is so dear,
Then you realized your confidence is greater than your fear.

World kept mocking-saying you are only alive to wive,
But you decided to strive harder to thrive.

Keep your head held high, fearing none
Because girl you are strong to face the world alone!

Your story is still incomplete, ask your hopes to stay,
This end’s with me wishing you a very good day!

-Ava Tripathy.

Woman must not accept; she must challenge. She must not be awed by that which has been built up around her; she must reverence that woman in her which struggles for expression.
Margaret Sanger

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The Underrated Judgement🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏽

“Don’t judge” is a common phrase which we all have heard of and we too also use it as a joke or an excuse, but the truth is that judgement is perceived as toxic and you can get the worst insult by being called judgemental. I have always been a bit disappointed with myself for being unable to meet the sublime ideal of not judging and control my thought process while interacting with people or general public.

When I see someone bold enough to argue with the teacher, I judge.
When I see a mother shouting at her 2 year old son, I judge.
When I see a rude man, I judge.
When I see a person yelling at his colleagues, I judge.
When someone cuts me off while speaking, I judge.

Not only me but these are only some out of many judgments which we humans make unintentionally or I can even say unqualified. I feel as much as people striving for non-judgemental ideal sounds appealing, it’s not something humanly possible. Ironically, I think making presumptions and assumption about something or someone is actually kind of normal unless they are toxic and can cause harm to somebody.But claiming that we are “not judging” is something absolutely absurd. We may all say that we are non-judgemental but the reality is something very different. We being humans tend to have our own opinions and make judgements when we witness different behaviors. Judgement is something which we desperately don’t want to face, but we ourselves cannot avoid judging because it’s obvious to human nature.

Open your mind to the world and the many different ways that can be found in it, before making hasty judgments of others. After all, the very same thing that you judge from where you are— may very well be something totally different in meaning on the other side of the world. The problem with making hasty judgments is that it will emphasize your ignorance at the end of the day.

Making judgements is okay, as it means reacting to people’s flaws with warmth and favor. But one should not rush to make negative assumptions and judge people today for the mistakes they made yesterday. Stop judging people by what you see,because you see what they want you to see.We cannot stop making judgements but we can minus the negative assumptions and focus on the positive one’s so that we all can have a positive environment to live. Judging the above situations in a positive way for example:-

Maybe that student is right about something that’s why she is opposing the teacher.
Maybe that mother is stressed due to sleepless nights or maybe she was handling all the tantrums of her son patiently for 98 times and what I saw was the 99th time when she lost her patience.
Maybe that man is having a bad day.
Maybe that person is under some pressure to complete a given work on time and his colleagues are not cooperating.
Maybe he what he wants to speak is important.

When they judge you, yawn.
When they misunderstand you, smile.
When they underestimate you, laugh.
When they condemn you, ignore.
When they envy you, rejoice.
When they oppose you, prevail.

Stay Safe, Happy and Positive Everyone……

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Patient NATURE’S Fury🧡

No one is more tolerant than Mother NATURE,
She is the one who helps us nurture,
She is the background of every picture,
But we are some heartless creature.

Her body is slowly dying,
With the flowers in her hair drying,
Sky releases thunderous crying,
She caught us all lying.

We make her feel so dirty,
With us she is all sweet and hearty,
We act on our own liberty,
Still we can’t destroy her inner beauty.

She knows what is wrong and right,
All these days she is quite quiet,
Trying her best not to fight,
So that we could see the morning light.

Time will come when mother stands still,
Which will make us all ill,
Filled with life-less shrill,
Let’s ask for forgiveness on our own will.

All the tantrums and fuss we make,
Causes her heart to ache,
Life is not a piece of cake,
We should stop now for god’s sake!

She is our mother glory,
We should not cause pain to bury,
Or we will have to worry,
Because no one can escape NATURE’S fury!

– Ava Tripathy.

Your deepest roots are in nature. No matter who you are, where you live, or what kind of life you lead, you remain irrevocably linked with the rest of creation.You didn’t come into this world. You came out of it, like a wave from the ocean. You are not a stranger here.

This year the eastern India is again going to suffer from a super cyclone Amphan. Last year cyclone Fani had destroyed the life of thousands of people. Homeless and depressed people were all round. Let’s just hope Amphan goes away without much harm done. The patience of our Mother Nature is slowly breaking, and not only we humans but also the innocent plants and animals are going to suffer from her fury. Hope, that people around the globe realise soon enough their mistakes and change their ways so that lives could be saved. Let’s be the first to take some initiative to save nature, What’s say?

Let’s pray that Cyclone Amphan doesn’t harm much life or property this year.

Stay Safe and Happy Everyone!!!

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The HumGrum Brothers🌷

Humble is never sad but Grumble is always mad,
Humble is always happy causing Grumble to be dappy,
Humble is of moral nature but Grumble forms an immoral creature,
Humble is so meek, making Grumble look so weak.

You two brothers from the same mother,
How can you be so different from each other!!!
Humble is like a dove full of love, while Grumble is nothing like Humble.
Grumble you make your twin a winner, making yourself look like a sinner.

Why do you always frown making your brother take away the crown?
Why do you have to behave like a mental, when your twin is so gentle?
It’s time to make your mood to be good,
Or you won’t be able to explain when you stumble upon Humble one Day.

O Please Grumble be humble today,
Following your twin is a must or you will turn to dust!
And Humble never grumble, I pray
Or grumble will make you like Grumble one day!

Only if I knew Grumble and Humble are identical twins,
I won’t have dared to squeak or freak!!!
We should fear to let Grumble near,
Because he is a stranger full of danger.

-Ava Tripathy.

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Wishing you a happy and great day ahead😊.

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3 Things We Should All Stop Apologizing For🌕.

We’re wired to seek a sense of belonging, and we fear being ostracized from our tribe, so many of us lean toward excessive contrition and apologies to ensure we’re still in people’s good books.A weird feeling called “Guilt” is one of the major reason which makes people apologize a lot.There is always a right time and need for a meaningful and true apology,but honestly most of us find ourselves saying too much and too often “Sorry”.I have noticed that the most used word of my entire day is “Sorry”. I feel I should not apologize for most of the things I do,most importantly I should not apologize for being myself because that’s how I am!

Apologizing for the below 3 points is a complete no-no. I’ve decided to make an actual effort to limit my sorry’s-Wanna Join me?

Being Myself.

Honestly, I’m a very frank and straight-forward person,but recently I have noticed that I always keep on apologizing for my honest point of view because of the guilt of hurting someone by my words.If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the past few years, it’s that my feelings are valid and they are mine alone.It’s always better to be straightforward than talking behind the back.I should never feel bad about expressing myself & my honest feelings.I should never back out from being myself,because my feelings are enough worthy to be expressed.There are of course ways to express those feelings correctly and maturely, but I know I should never have to apologize for the things that I am naturally feeling. Saying “Sorry” for being who I’m should not be a part of my vocabulary.I will not apologize anymore for the way I feel,but will definitely learn to express them in a much better manner.

“Never apologize for showing your feelings. When you do, you are apologizing for the truth.”

My Priorities & Ideologies.

I want to live a life I choose to,regardless of fitting in with other people’s norms.I should not apologize to anyone for being different from them.I have learned one thing after a long time-Making decisions about your own future,don’t do any harm to anyone.No-one should feel guilty about improving themselves or thinking about themselves first.I won’t apologize anymore for prioritizing certain things in my life and I know that I will be making mistakes in the long run but there will be no need of apologizing for the decisions I make.

“When your only regret is if anyone thinks you regret anything -that is the definition of conviction.”

My Appearance.

Last but not the least,I should never ever apologize for my looks.It’s often said “Never judge a book by it’s cover”,but still people often tend to judge others by their appearance.I apologize for my appearance very often and up until recently, because I realized that saying “Sorry” for how I look is hurting my self-confidence.If I am having messy hair or no make-up look then it’s my decision to be like that why should I apologize to anyone.I’m a human too, so it’s okay not to have a picture-perfect look all the time.I am growing to be more confident about my appearance(however I look) and have stopped apologizing for it.

“Apologizing does not always mean you’re wrong and the other person is right. It just means you value your relationship more than your ego.”

If you’re anything like me, you apologize far too often, and many a time, when you haven’t done anything wrong.We may also apologize because we’re highly sensitive to other people’s feelings, and we want to ensure we haven’t unintentionally caused them pain or trouble.It’s admirable to apologize when we’ve genuinely done something wrong, or even if we believe we inadvertently hurt someone else. But there are certain choices we need to know and own, and should never apologize for.

Stay Safe, Happy and Positive Everyone……

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💐Blessings In Disguise 💐

I ask the Earth below and Sky above,

To fill the dark of night with love.

After a dark night comes a morning full of light,

Still a dark night needs a hope of light to fight!

Let the morning Sun take away my pain,

So that I can wake renewed again.

Hope the time soon comes renewed by the Sun,

To count my blessings one by one.

O beautiful Moon, please lend me your power,

And bring me peace this very hour.

I call upon you this secret night,

To bless your child with strength and might!

O Lord let the gift of saving grace

Fall in a fruitful place,

Because life without blessing is not worth possessing!

I believe your blessings in disguise makes one sigh in relief,

Full of joy without any grief!

O Lord with your power give us blessings in shower,

So that even in difficult future may peace infuse and nurture.

Maybe before we meet,I will give everyone a goodbye greet.

Lord I hope one day we will meet,

When I go deep into my sleep,

When I go deep into my sleep.

-Ava Tripathy

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Stay Safe, Happy & Blessed!!!

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5 Morning Hacks To Keep You Motivated All Day Long☀️.

You need to think of yourself as a fighter jet and apply some level of discipline to your mornings to overcome at least some level of negativity during this global crisis. If your first message to yourself in the morning is that you can be lazy and your day doesn’t matter, you’re going to struggle the rest of the day to find motivation and energy.Some easy morning hacks will help you stay focused and productive during this time.

Good morning Sunshine,to help you out, here are my top five morning routine hacks to help you dominate your day and grow into a more positive and happier person.

1.Drink A Glass Of Water.

To keep your body hydrated and refreshed,it’s very necessary to drink a glass of water as soon as you wake up.It’s a very healthy practice as it gives a boost to your body to wake up.

2.Practice Meditation Or Yoga.

To make you feel cool,calm and relaxed all day long it’s truly necessary to start your day with meditation or yoga.While doing Yoga, attention is focused on thoughts and breath. Being aware of breathing automatically controls the thought process and thus relaxes mind completely.It definitely helps to improve a person’s mental well-being.

3.Learn To Thank & Show Gratitude.

It’s very important to pray & thank god for each day we get to live.Some days can be difficult, and we may not feel our best for whatever reason.But,we should always believe in God and and never stop hoping.It’s okay to feel down and negative,it happens with everyone from time to time.Try to find some inspiration or positivity around you;Try to learn from your situation,which will eventually help you grow.

4.Get Clear With Your Goals For Each & Every Day.

Plan and chalk out the things you want to do for the day.Be consistent and intentional on what you want to do and achieve for the day.You need to clear yourself from all the negativity and bring your focus to do something constructive which you intend to complete that day.So,basically make a timetable for yourself.

5.Avoid Social-Media.

Staying away from social-media not only during these days but also in general will bring a lot of positive aspects in your life.Social media is a large platform which has the power to spread fake and illogical news in seconds.Just going through bad news can be enough to affect the next few hours of the day, if not the full day. Avoid it at all costs and by all means.Instead, invest your time in reading a novel,listen to your favorite music, podcast or an audio book etc,which will eventually lighten up your mind and soul.

The war against Covid-19 won’t be over soon, not next month or even the month after next. Perhaps not until we will have a vaccine, which experts say could be more than a year from now. Let’s be honest with one another: despite it being necessary, being stuck at home sucks.Setting up a routine can be challenging at first, especially if you don’t know where to start.But once you do it and it becomes a habit you will start enjoying your day.

Stay Safe and Be Positive Everyone!!!

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Dream A Dream🌸

Hold on to your dreams very tight,
Use all your might,
So that they stay within your sight,
And work as light to make your life bright.

Let your dreams creep,
Into your soul deep,
Or someone else will make your dreams sweep,
And then you will only weep!

Life without dreams is like a barren field,
Everything frozen with snow
And people may not even know,
That a life without dreams can never grow!

Transform your heart and dreams into gold,
Which should never be sold,
Even if told,
By the mighty and bold!

Don’t let anyone take your dreams as a delusion,
Even if it’s just a mere illusion!
Make yourself a promise of trying your best,
Then only you can leave on God the rest.

-Ava Tripathy

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Dreams are important.So, keep on dreaming and fulfill all your dreams guys!!! What are your views about dreams? Share in the comments below……would love to know your opinion!!!

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Hushhh,Hear Life Speak💙…

You see, the way you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible for you, determines everything that happens to you.When you change the quality of your thinking, you change the quality of your life.The first step of success in anything is to say and believe “I CAN!!!”. If you have a dream which you wish to complete then just start giving efforts to complete it.Once you make your will strong then nothing can kill your dreams.

You are made up of everything you have seen,heard,eaten,smelled,been told,forgot-it’s all there.Everything influences each of us,and because of that we should try to make sure that our experiences are positive.When life hands you lemons, sometimes it can feel like you simply can’t make lemonade — and you’ll need a strong, comforting hand to uplift you. Nearly everyone goes through adversity in their own life’s journey, and sometimes a tragic event or a great disappointment can feel like it’s knocked you down for good. Every year, the cold of winter melts away and spring brings a new beginning. New beginnings are never easy,but still try to embrace them with your open arms.

Remember always You can,You should,and if You are brave enough to start and achieve your dreams then You will.You need not stop when you are tired,but stop only when you feel that you have completed your dream.Being a human, we should always go to bed satisfied(it’s necessary for the Right state of our Mind),but wake up full of determination.It’s going to be hard always,but hold on hard never means impossible!!! How you go through and manage your life is up to you. So what are you going to be and what you want to be, happy or sad? What are you going to do, live in the sunshine or in the darkness? You need to decide first who you truly are, what you want to be and what you want to do,say and think. Always choose positivity over negativity no matter how hard is life to you, and then you will see your world change for better.

“Did I offer peace today?Did I bring a smile to someone’s face?Did I say words of healing?Did I let go of my anger and resentment?Did I forgive?Did I love?These are the real questions. I must trust that the little bit of love that I sow now will bear many fruits,here in this world and the life to come.” – Henri Nouwen

Live Life To The Fullest!!!

I am sending you some virtual flowers through my post,wishing you good health and luck. Stay safe,keep smiling. Hope, you all will like the flowers😂.

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A Hope Of Living🌞

Nothing more will affect as they won’t have any effect…

More than watching people cry till their tears dry.

Life is in such state that you cannot meet your mate.

God if you are late it will be terrible for our fate!

Life will make you run if you have some fun,

You cannot even buy your bun in the morning sun!

People strive to survive a day,asking the moon to go soon.

Life is at stake,afford no mistake.

You don’t have the power to break this tower of curse,

But it’s time for us to have a nerve to serve.

Why God is so mad making us all sad ?

God is the constructor,can he ever be a destructor?

No,I don’t think so!

There must be some way for this to go away.

Hold on,have some hope but never say nope.

Fight with all your might,then take some rest and wait for the best!

Because I feel life won’t be drifted by the one who has gifted.

-Ava Tripathy

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Stay Safe & Healthy. Be positive this shall too pass away😇.

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