I would much rather be a woman than a man because here in this world it is not a big issue if a woman cries or shows her emotions openly and they are also always the first to be rescued off from the sinking ships of life. Well we all know being a good actor is not easy but do everyone know that being a man is even much more harder???
I hear the phrase “man-up” used so frequently, I often wonder in what context the word “man” is being used and what it really says about how society views masculinity as a whole. It is coming over ages that being a man means accepting responsibilities in all ways. Just because of the difference that ‘HE’ is a man people are forgetting that ‘HE’ is a human too that he can also love, cry, care, scream, enjoy and can do what he wants to do.
Right from the playground to the ground of life, people are coding masculinity in a wrong way. With all these wrong ideologies people are forgetting that humanism is more important than being a male or a female. We all must have heard common phrases like “boys will be boys” or “that’s just how boys/men are.” but don’t you think think it’s unfair to judge and think that every boy/man has to be same? They are not. Everyone is unique in their own way and people should accept that.
Men do experience problems like misandry, sexism, harassment, patriarchy, victims of violent crimes, work pressure, depression, victims of homicides, Health and family issues, relationship issues or heart breaks etc but the thing is they normally don’t come out with their problems which is killing them. Being a man is not easy as it seems to be because suffering through everything with a smile on face is not easy.
He is the father you are born from, he is the grandpa who spoils you,he is your protective brother you grow up with, he is a better secret sharing buddy and better friend than many of your female friends, he is your lover with whom you will experience the feeling of love and being loved, a husband with whom you will see your dreams come true and a son for whom you can die for. You men yes you, you people make our life complete, you are so precious.
Happy International Men’s Day to all the wonderful men out there and thank you for being the pillars of our life👨🏻👦🏻👴🏻.
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